7 Students Answer 'Who in Your Life is Most Deserving of $100,000?'

If you were handed a blank check for $100,000 with the instruction to give it to a person or organization who has supported you and your personal goals, who would you select? Maybe, you would gift it to a motivating coach, donate it to a helpful community organization, or sign it over to your supportive parents. While receiving a blank check with no strings attached is quite unusual, it doesn’t stop these U.S. students from sharing how they would express their gratitude for their biggest supporters. Use these examples from seven students to recognize the people who have played a role in helping you achieve your own educational or financial goals.

1. An impactful non-profit organization

A non-profit organization is a business that is formed for socially beneficial purposes. Some entities in your community, like hospitals, universities, churches, and charities, are non-profit organizations focused on helping society rather than making money. Western Carolina University student Mitchell shares the non-profit organization that has made a profound impact on his life: 

“If I was ever lucky enough to receive a blank check worth $100,000, I would immediately address it to the Haywood Waterways Association. This not-for-profit organization is one that I began working with as an intern at the beginning of my sophomore year in college for a duration of two whole years…Their main focuses include environmental education, community building, environmental awareness, and meaningful change in the field. I was honestly moved by this, and it made me so excited to work for them!…The HWA helped me reach the realization that the undergraduate degree I completed in environmental science was more than just an education in natural science, it was a gateway into a career where I could truly have an impact on my community.”

Mitchell M. Western Carolina University

2. A teacher who goes the extra mile

Many high school teachers go above and beyond to make their classroom a fun and safe learning environment. More often than not, these teachers do not receive credit for the effort they put in outside of normal classroom duties. Faith, a student from Purdue University, would like to recognize a teacher whose zeal and example has heavily influenced her career goals:

“The first person who immediately comes to mind when I think of receiving a $100,000 check is my high school chemistry teacher. She is the one who ultimately inspired me to pursue chemistry through my biological engineering degree...Beyond her classroom duties, she went the extra mile to support her students. She would constantly put her students' needs first, whether it meant staying late after school to provide extra tutoring, organizing study sessions before major tests, or offering guidance on which college to choose.…Her impact on my life was profound, even if I didn't fully realize it at the time. If I had a different chemistry teacher—one who lacked her passion, dedication, and exceptional teaching skills—I might not be in the degree program I am today, or perhaps I might not even be in the STEM field.”

Faith C. Purdue University

3. Parents who believe in you

By nature, your parents are responsible for protecting and nurturing you. However, when they encourage you to get out of your comfort zone, you can more clearly see your own potential and believe in yourself. LSU student Isaiah recounts how his parents motivated him to develop his work ethic and become more independent:

“One thing my parents always told me was that if I want something, go and work for it. Instead of putting me on a worse basketball team where I would play more and be the star, my parents told me to train harder than everyone else. Instead of putting me in easier classes where I’d be more successful, my parents gave me websites and told me to study an hour a day if I want school to be easier for me…Today I graduated High School with a 4.1 GPA in one of the hardest programs in the country, the IB program, which helped me receive over $80,000 in scholarship money. And after playing 4 years of varsity basketball starting for 3 of them, I won two all-region awards and made great memories with my teammates. I owe every single ounce of success to my parents. Instead of shielding me from the realities of the world, my parents instilled the value of hard work and perseverance in me. So, when asked the question of who would I thank for aiding the success in my life, I don't think there is a more clear answer.”

Isaiah S. Louisiana State University

4. A supportive mentor

Having a mentor is a valuable experience. Not only can they provide mental and emotional support, but they can help you achieve your goals in many other areas of your life. A student from Grand Canyon University shares how he would like to show gratitude for his mentor who diligently supports both his professional and personal life:

“One of the unique aspects of Mr. Ruhter's impact on my life was his role as a surrogate father figure. Growing up without a strong connection with my dad left a void that Mr. Ruhter effortlessly filled. He became more than just a teacher; he became the first adult with whom I found the courage to confide my identity as a gay individual. In that moment of vulnerability, Mr. Ruhter not only embraced my truth but also became a pillar of support, offering understanding and guidance without judgment….Beyond the emotional support, Mr. Ruhter has been instrumental in my journey within the world of leadership. As an Associate Director for the Association of Washington Student Leaders, he has not only opened doors but also paved the way for me to connect with influential individuals in the leadership realm. Through his mentorship, I have gained access to a network that extends far beyond the boundaries of our high school, providing me with opportunities for growth, learning, and personal development. Addressing the $100,000 check to Mr. Ruhter would not only express my appreciation for his role as an educator, mentor, and second dad, but also serve as an investment in the continued success of someone who dedicates their life to empowering the next generation.”

Antonio D. Grand Canyon University

5. A cousin you can count on

When you’re young, your cousins may just be your playmates or the people you gravitate to at family events. However, as you grow older, some cousins are easier to relate to and can serve as a role model in various aspects of life. A student from Howard University shares how she relies on her cousin for financial advice:

“As a college freshman approaching adulthood, credit scores, rent, post-grad jobs, and my major are all that's on my mind. Bri is someone who I can come to for all of my concerns. When planning my budget for my first semester at college, Bri patiently guided me through creating a realistic budget tailored to my expenses and savings. She shared personal anecdotes of her own college budgeting triumphs and mishaps, making the whole process relatable and less daunting. Bri emphasized the importance of distinguishing between needs and wants, urging me to prioritize essentials like textbooks and public transportation over non-essentials like excessive shopping and unnecessary Ubers. She also introduced me to useful budgeting apps and online tools to track my spending habits. It is now near the end of the semester, and with her advice, I not only spent my money responsibly but also have left over money from being so diligent…I have just started college, but I already know the financial lessons she's given me will be used for the rest of my life. Grateful doesn't even begin to cover it.”

Ashley P. Howard University

6. A family member in need

When someone close to you is facing challenges, you often go above and beyond to support them, especially if they are family. If possible, you may listen sympathetically, provide support by being present, or offer practical assistance to lighten their load. Alex, a student at Carnegie Mellon University, explains how he would give financial resources to his uncle in a time of need:

“My mother’s twin sister and her husband, known as the Thomases, have been instrumental in molding my personality since day one…Sadly, my uncle, the father of the Thomas family, currently experiences life-threatening medical complications and is in line for one of the most significant and expensive medical operations available just so he can live like the rest of us. His calm yet resolute adherence to values such as family and service to others is palpable, and it pains me to witness his limitations. Since I can only imagine what the Thomases are enduring, they came to mind first when reading this essay prompt. The Thomases have done so much for me in easing the distress of finding my place in this world. It is time for them to receive help. Giving back to them by writing ‘The Thomas Family’ on this blank check is a beacon of hope to ease their current pain.”

Alex H. Carnegie Mellon University

7. An extracurricular program that shaped you

It might take time to find your niche in high school, but when you do, it can help you blossom into the person you’re meant to be. Whether you join the chess club, basketball squad, or speech team, extracurricular activities can help you become a positive example for other students. Brandon, an Illinois State University student, shares how he came alive in high school through the help of his school’s theater program:

“If I was handed a blank check for $100,000, I would give the check to the Schaumburg High School Theatre Program. The program has had a profound effect on my life, and the blank check would impact so many students in a positive way...I received constant praise for my seemingly endless amount of energy, and for being so confident in my work. For a very long time, I did not have either of these traits, rather, I was a boring, quiet, and insecure kid…Since that time, I’ve committed to becoming the absolute best version of myself, and I believe that acting is the way for me to reach that. I have chosen to push myself by taking difficult classes, getting as involved as possible, spending hours getting tutored, studying hard, and repeatedly discussing my academic plan with my advisors. My resolve has catapulted me into powerful programs offered at my schools, and I would never have been in programs such as Phi Theta Kappa, nor would I have been awarded the Distinguished Trustee Scholarship at Harper College, had I been the person that I was before. I would never have transformed into who I am today, had it not been for that incredible growth that I experienced through theater.”

Brandon S. Illinois State University

Were these seven students able to help you recognize an individual or group in your life who deserves your thanks? Instead of waiting for a mysterious donor to drop a $100,000 check in your hands, consider expressing your gratitude by writing thank you notes to your biggest supporters. Even though it may feel impossible to fully repay those who helped you meet your specific goals, showing simple appreciation can go a long way. Being thankful for what you already have can give you a better perspective on life and prepare you to recognize unexpected blessings when they do appear on your financial journey.